Mixed Marriage

For those who think that mixed marriage is an easy thing.

Well

You got it wrong.

Especially for the communication part.

Coz it will have so many many many miscommunication throughout the marriage.

As me

Cannot speak Hokkien and Mandarin.

I tempt to get misunderstanding

And for that time

You will think that I should learn.

In real time.

Wont have enough time

As you have to do everything and any house chores depends on you.

And also you need to find money to meet your needs 

For husband

Should understand that his wife is not Mandarin/Hokkien speaker

So he should tell everything

To avoid misunderstanding

Not just pandai2 you lah nak masuk dalam family I.

It will affect your relationship.

One will outspokenly do anything that you think right.

And the other one silently killed inside

And get damage.

Point here is.

Communication is the KEY.

Communicate

Talk

As simple as

I don't like that.

As simple as that.

And appreciate what your spouse tell u

Its her/his feeling

Respect it

Not condemn it