So that people would know
Psikologi seorang perempuan
Seorang isteri
Seorang surirumah
Trying so hard to be the best wife and mother to her husband and children.
Maybe you know about this all along.
But still
I just wanna say this
I just wanna write this.
Bila seorang isteri
Ask for something
And you. As her husband says "No. I would give this much only. Got a lot of baju already. Its too expensive."
And then you give as much as she ask or even more.
But the feeling.
The taste.
Is not the same anymore.
While you saying NO, they are so frustrated.
She just want to have a moment maybe to shopping for the whole family.
But because of money.
She had to ask you.
But the moment you said NO.
She knows that she had to do something to get things done.
To shopping for the whole family.
And thats when she try so damn hard to korek2 dalam tabung or account mana yang boleh dia guna untuk fulfill semua tu.
Coz kids need to be happy.
Kids need that new shirt.
As much as she are happy when she's in that age of her kids, she wants the exact same feeling her kids feel.
But the difference is she don't have money.
She have to work for it.
And sometimes.
It become 'tawar hati'
Adding up here and there the 'terasa' part.
It will become tawar.
And the gift?
The money that husband give?
Is sour.
Is 'tawar'
No spice at all.
Why?
Because she already lose hope on you.
Eventhought you are the provider to that family.
So husbands.
Mind your language.
Mind your 'joke' part.
Sometimes it will make your wife become 'tawar'.
Just a kind reminder to everyone.
